When a guy thinks he's going to get lucky, euphoria sets in. Then he wants to stay at the party, get drunk with his buddies and see who else falls prey to his immesurable charm..Unfortunately, being so self centered and greedy often causes a guy to miss his opportunities. His intended gets drunk too, and instead of going when the going is good, he waits too long and then her mood takes a turn.
This is more commonly known as a woman changing her mind..
How a woman changes her mind is very difficult to understand. All I know is that it happens at the speed of light, without warning and that unlike men, who wouldn't have the nerve to try this unsupervised. Having been married for a long time, I now understand that women have an absolute right to change their minds. A man must respect it, no matter how swollen his glands have become.
I was twenty two years old at one time..
"But Sherry, babe, you said this is what you wanted.."
"Well, that's not what I want now. That's what I wanted a little while ago, but it's not what I want now."
It's all about timing when you are with a woman.
"But we already made an agreement. I'm already in lovemaking mode. I can't stop now. And you're obviously excited and..."
And now you are begging, which is so very attractive. Once you beg you have lost her respect, and you'll never get any. Once you are begging you are in puppy dog mode and the last thing you will get is the bone. That's why it's good if your girlfriend has roommates. Better odds.
Some guys think they are lucky when a woman tells him she wants them to sleep together. Usually, when a woman is this straightforward, a distressing surprise is just around the corner.
"When I said I wanted us to sleep together, I meant really sleep."
Another sentence from hell.
I tried "just sleeping" with a woman once, but it didn't work. We did not sleep. She slept. I was awake... staring at the ceiling. Counting the holes in the acoustic tiles.
